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Rosamaria Elena Delgado, known by her family as Rosa, was born on
January 21, 1996. She has beautiful tan colored skin, straight dark
brown hair, and light green eyes. Rosa has a very outgoing personality,
and she loves to play basketball with her sisters and go to the park
to play baseball with her father. Rosa was born in the capital of
Honduras, Tegucigalpa, and she moved to the United States with her
family at the age of 3. Like most hispanic families, Rosa had a very
large extended family. The only ones who were fortunate enough to
come to the Unites States were her immediate family members. They
consisted of her mother Jisela Irma (28 upon arrival), her father
Alberto Emilio(34 upon arrival), and her two sisters Fermina Jade
(5 upon arrival) and Milagros Simona (6months upon arrival). Rosa's
family speaks primarily Spanish, their native language.
In Honduras, Jisela was a stay at home mother. She was fortunate enough
to have maids to clean their house, take care of the children, and
even cook. She always tried to make a little money on the side by
cooking her secret ingredient empenadas and specialty cakes. Alberto
taught school at the high school down the road and he was also a part
time doctor on call. He was fortunate enough to earn a scholarship
that allowed him the opportunity to further his education at the University
of Tennessee in the United States. He jumped at this oportunity and
brought his family to the United States. Sadly his socioeconomic status
in Honduras did not compare nor did it transfer when he and his family
came to the United States. Alberto had a great time at school continuing
his studies, however it was very difficult for him and his family
because they did not know English. The Delgado family now had to survive
on the few jobs that Alberto received and a few odd jobs that he and
Jisela did on the side, which averaged out to about $525 a month.
Of course there were many adjustments that had to be made when this
family moved to the United States. Rosa is in the 2nd grade, Fermina
just started 4th grade, and Milagros is not old enough to start school
yet. Rosa is one of the only hispanic girls in the entire school and
this makes her feel very uncomfortable. There is one other hispanic
boy, but he just ignores her and acts like she doesn't even exist
because she doesn't know how to speak English. Rosa is treated like
an alien, and is very uncomfortable at school. She is so outgoing
and she wants badly to learn English, but it is very difficult for
her because her parents and everyone she communicates with at home
knows very little English.
This ten year old young lady is beginning to feel a great deal of
frustration expressing her wants and needs at home, and not to mention
trying to actually learn something from the lessons the teacher is
trying to teach. Rosa has not even learned the information in her
home language yet, so it is even more difficult for her at school.
Not only does she have to try and learn new information, but she has
to try and learn it in a brand new language. Rosa is very confused
and lonely. She has no friends at school and everyone has made her
feel like she doesn't belong. Everyone, but the teacher that is. The
teacher tries to include her in everything and wants her to feel welcome,
but with the language barrier, it seems to be unsuccessful in Rosa's
eyes.
This new life is not only hard for Rosa, it is hard for her mother
Jisela as well. Her husband is either at school, or in the office
working with patients. He is unable to help her at home with the children
and is unaware of the problems that they’re having in school.
She no longer has a maid to help her cook, clean, or take care of
the children and she seems to be under a great deal of stress. Jisela
is used to being able to provide her children with anything they want,
but now she barely has enough income to give her children the basic
necessities. She doesn’t know how to explain why they can’t
have the extra little things that all of the other children have.
The house seems so bare compared to their lavish home in Honduras.
They have hardly any furniture; just one couch and three matresses
that were given to them by one of their neighbors. They have very
little supplies, such as food and clothing and are having a very hard
time surviving. It seems like almost every night now they eat the
same things: rice, beans, and torillas. They do not like American
food and refuse to eat the way Americans eat. They are struggling
to fight total assimilation. They are afraid to stray from the ways
of their ancestors but they know that the United States of America
offers them the greatest opportunities.
The Delgado family is really having a hard time in America. They have
very little money and they have a hard time communicating with anybody
because they have not learned English yet. This is very hard for Rosa
and her sisters because they want to learn English, but at the same
time their family wants them to preserve their culture. The constant
stress that this family is going through is beginning to really affect
Rosa, Fermina, and Milagros, and their parents.
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